Are you a Sexual Healer?

Sexual Healing.

You thought it was just a song? Given how Marvin Gaye himself was in tune with his Divine Feminine it’s no surprise that he created such an iconic single. Amidst other alleged rumors surrounding his personal life (ala Quincy Jones’ 2018 Vulture interview ) it’s possible that he may have been a gifted Sexual Alchemist. Which also unfortunately could have led his inability to heal his own personal traumas.

Sexual Healing is more than the skill of sucking and fucking. It is an energetic bridge between worlds that combines the sacred with the mundane. Used correctly it brings about transformation of the Spirit or, Creation. Life or Enlightenment, and somtimes both.

To be clear, you could probably make somebody call God 40 times or keep their legs shaking like maracas but that doesn’t make you a Sexual Alchemist. Although no less gifted—wit yo nasty ass lol.

Coincidentally you do NOT have to be Spiritual or, rather committed to a particular religious sect or ideology to have this gift. It does however require an initiation namely:

The Alchemist has to be initiated by another Alchemist, though not limited to this current life time. Some people are already born with it. So how do you know you’ve got “IT”?

Let me start by saying NOTHING I’M SAYING IS LAW! It is a theory, rooted in personal experience, research, and observations over the course of many years. So take it with a grain of salt.

1) THEY COME TO YOU COMPLETELY FUCKED UP

Have you ever had a sneaky link, A Tinder date, or someone you’ve always kind of liked come over to YOUR HOUSE, but they’re drunk, high, or just an emotional wreck?

I’m talking so twisted they can barely form a decent thought and their eyes look like some shit out of Attack on Titan?

Not to mention, they most likely just popped up or called you on the fly to see if you were free?

* They’ll never ask if you need anything if they call, btw.

They probably ask the bare minimum about you in the name of keeping it “casual”. In some cases they may call themselves being annoyed with you for doing anything other than tapping that clit, cradling those balls, tugging on a nipple.

They’re in need of healing, and they came to you because YOU GOT THAT LOOOOVE ( to quote Gerald Levert).

2) THEY INSULT YOU, WHILE STILL EXPECTING TO FUCK YOU!

This is especially for those who identify as Pagan, or believe anything beyond the Abrahamic Religions.

For example, one summer I hooked up with this FIONE ass guy. Tall, and lean with a great body. Gorgeous butterfly wing shaped eyes—but you guessed it, they were BLOODSHOT RED!

Homeboy was smoking strong before he got to me, and barely survived the 5 foot walk to my door. After I got him to my couch he set up to roll up again (which we had already agreed on) but I had no idea he’d already gotten started. Somewhere during this time he asked me if it was awkward trying to date “ being a...”

“A WITCH?” I responded.

He jolted upright and held himself like he’d seen the Holy Ghost and declared “Ugh! Oh No! I’m SANCTIFIED” then proceeds to inhale them nasty ass Backwoods.

I’ve proudly been out of the Broom Closet by this time so HE ALREADY KNEW . It was in my headline, bio, and even in the section that asks your Spiritual beliefs. He was legit sickened, low-key scared of the idea of me but, of course he still wanted to fuck.

The ultimate gag, HE CALLED OUT MY ABILITIES!

I never mentioned THAT. it wasn’t in my bio, and I was not yet even aware. I really thought he was calling me a Special Forces type of Hoe. I mean I know Oshun, be Oshuning, but I only Slut FOR MY MAN—when I have one. It wasn’t until I spoke to my Mentor the next day, that she confirmed I had “IT” and, it worked on him! Yes, I still fucked him—judge ya Mammy.

Understand, It’s not limited to a person’s Spiritual beliefs though, you may have heard other backward comments like:

“I normally don’t go for Black Girls/Guys”

“...Fat Girls/Guys”

“I’m not really into Straight/Bi/Non-Binary/Trans. But you’re cool.”

TBH they’re NOT into you but, on some Soul level they know you can “ take their pain” away. Cause you can.

But, —THEY’RE NOT INTO YOU!!! Not for real and they meant that shit.

Although they may genuinely appreciate your kindness or, think you’re sexually attractive, (or not) in their mind you’re just the right person for the job. This is important because depending on how LAZY they are, the person may falsely begin a relationship with you knowing they’ll never commit once they get the energetic reset but, also cheat you out of all the benefits of being in a loving partnership. It can go on for years if you’re not aware of it and, sometimes they can be extremely cruel and demanding of what you do for them outside of the bedroom.

But be mindful the truth of their 1st statement will always come out now and then.

reminding you, they don’t want YOU, they want free energy to waste plus benefits. You’re a life size bag of Cocaine in their eyes, and they will terrorize you when you’re in short supply, then discard you, when you’re dry. Be careful, you take on so much everyday, don’t let them drain you.

you have to be willing to walk away, even BEFORE you fuck the first time. Listen to those phrases don’t ignore them.

3) THEY COERCE, CRY, OR OFFER TO PAY YOU

None of that is okay, and while you are an initiate of Sacred Prostitution you don’t have no Pimps or Madams (unless you do).

NO MEANS—FUCK NO! Period. You don’t owe ANYBODY the experience of you nor, your sacred gift. They can find another source, or at least that private tab on Pornhub. Fuck them—-in Goddess’ name.

4) YOU ARE STRANGELY DRAWN TO THE EROTIC

It can’t escape you.

To be clear this does not mean addicted. However you feel as if all things Romantic AND Sensual are naturally apart of you. You can’t remember a day you weren’t moved by music, portraits, films, books, or felt there may be a link to Spirit through Sex.

Even before you started fucking.

You may have even found yourself in or, currently participating in Sex Work in some form:

• Stripping

• Illegal Prostitution (Voluntarily, you were your own Pimp, and your own Hoe)

• Filming Adult content

• Professional BDSM

• Studying The Kama Sutra, Tantra, or other Sacred Sexual Texts

• Sensual Massage

• Worked as a Phone Sex operator or Chat specialist

• Teach Sexual Education and Health Awareness

• Have been asked to be or, entertained the idea of being a P.I.M.P—albeit an ethical one.

• Or just like to talk about Sex ( from a healthy standpoint)

While you may have also done these things to survive, cause we ALL got bills, you may have felt it was almost destined for you. If you think on it. You may have even had a friend, or random person initiate you by “taking you under their wing”. You may have never spoken to them again afterward. My personal belief is your Spirits know exactly how to guide you. Even if they have to borrow a meat suit.

I myself do and, have done some of these things, so imagine the explosion I made my first few months on YouTube as the only reader who said with her whole chest “ I’m Nasty! ” —I’m still fighting strikes for 3 year old posts.

I did create the phrase “HIGH PRIESTESS PUSSY”, put it on a shirt, and coffee cups to match. “HIGH PRIEST PEEN”—created that too.

Listen babe, it’s apart of you, like your vital organs, and ORGAN lol. You may have even felt shame, or been shamed for your joy of Sex and Sensuality, and Romance.

It unfortunately comes wit the territory, so chances are you had to leave home to embrace your true self, if you didn’t run into trouble on the way—or, got kicked out for being a Whore of Babylon or, being “Demonic”. Even though you might be—who knows? That’s your business, and even the greatest Prophets were murders, thieves, and assholes.

Mary Magdelene, though labeled as a Prostitute, was not roaming the streets, and itching. She was a landowner and true business woman, and helped fund the mission of Christ (Her Divine Counterpart and HUSBAND). More tea on that can be found by checking out ISSY LIVING on Instagram for more information.

5) THEY THANK YOU

This is a HUGE one. If you’ve ever had sex with someone and they thank you before, during or after. Their Higher Self is slapping them and demanding they show you gratitude. Especially if they cheap ass came over empty handed. You may think it’s cause you wore them out— and probably did, but you also released some blockages, and depending on what Spirit has you designed for, their lives may change—inevitably.

6) Identify yourself!!

You made them cum so good, and hard—and likely multiple times that now they gotta know, where you came from, who taught you that shit, or my personal favorite “WHAT ARE YOU?”

They’re not gassing you up—It’s in your coding, a gift from this lifetime or, others. You were a Priest, or Priestess, most likely trained in a Venusian Temple at some point and it’s never left you. Either way it’s precious to you, and being asked them annoying ass questions is NOT funny after the umpteenth time you’ve heard it.

Chill babe, You’re a Healer, and this is just one aspect of you.

7) Love, Romance, and Family Life seems to Elude you.

This one I’m absolutely guessing, but in other lives, you served as Priest or Priestess, depending on the era, this may have been for a large portion of your life, but not entirely. Or you comepletely devoted your life to service, by force, as many of the Divine Feminines had to, during the rise of Christianity or, You chose the life of a Monk or Nun.

From what I’ve learned it is possible that in this lifetime, from the moment you were initiated, or reawakened you may have felt that you didn’t have time to devote to a partner (Women Especially).

You may have even detested people completely and devoted yourself to your work, and isolated yourself. ( Much of this can be filled in by Issy Living) . For Men, you just wanted to be a Playa!! You didn’t have time for a long-term commitment, let alone having kids. For others the primary focus may have been on creating stability, building up those bank accounts, securing property, 401ks and ensuring a life long financial legacy and reserve.

Albeit for some you fell in love quite easily, but things never lasted.

For some of us, myself included, have always desired to get married and have a family, but no one ever “fit”, the time didn’t seem right, OR, you may have had an opportunity but, your partner was TOXIC and you did NOT want to bring an innocent baby into toxicity.

True tea. I was in a DV relationship in my early 20s and even though he proposed (after I left him) and I accepted my Cancer Zodiac brain kicked in and asked me if I would really risk having children with that short dick coke fiend, and risk him hurting my babies because he wouldn’t control his rage?

How would I feel putting children through the trauma of watching me gut open their Dad, or blow his brains out for hurting them? Not ME, but the children. It would all be my fault no matter how I would try to rationalize it.

Would I really want to leave my children with MY fucked up family?? HELL NAW!

I found all the self-esteem I needed with those questions, and let that bullshit go!

It’s a possibility, according to Issy’s research that you may just be reliving your years of Priest/Priestess servitude, anywhere from the ages of 6 to 36, she writes. I would theorize it’s from the time of initiation until you’ve completed certain parts of your life, or paid back any big karmic debt, or had time to heal certain things within yourself to allow that cycle to begin.

You met those assholes for a reason. I also believe you most likely DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN right now, though you do want a family. You also crave love that rivals all the classics, like Romeo and Juliet, Antony and Cleopatra, Tommy and Pam lol.

It’s all possible, and most likely will happen, but after you’ve served your time. Or in the Case of “The Chosen Ones”, or Twin Flames, that person you crave exist, and it’s your mission to teach others about the sanctity of DIVINE UNION.

To be clear, THAT IS NOT EVERYBODY, the Divine Counterparts, are the Chosen few MEANT to unite in this lifetime to help elevate us into the NEW EARTH. So not everyone who lived the Priest/Priestess life is a Twin Flame, but they still may have karmic debts, and can date, fuck, and fly all they want, but Mr./Mrs. Right ain’t coming until the contract is up. Or in this life you may have married multiple times, but it never lasted, personal actions also must be considered.

8) You’re always “mommy” OR “daddy”!

This is definitely the big one! regardless if you see yourself that way or not! As the healer the person you are intimate with will always place you in a power position.

to be clear, on a surface level some may combine this with their own personal fetishes, but on a spiritual level you are the person with the authority to relieve them of what hurts. This can also prove to be annoying as hell because there are times you just want to fuck!!

to have fun without the weight of becoming emotionally responsible for an issue that did not concern you until this person opened their mouth. This also forces you at times to play a role you may not have considered yourself to be in, but it is the energy that you carry that will have people “submit” themselves to you.

For example, have you ever had someone ready to service you while in a state of confession?

or ask you if they can address you as Mommy or Daddy while they freely give you oral while they cry?

That’s the energy of the healer and it can be uncomfortable, but remember you do not have to take any action and if its too awkard go home! It’s important because once to engage in the sexual act, you are receiving that negative energy onto yourself, and you will have to cleanse.

Which brings me to my final point. as someone who carries the gift of sexual alchemy you MUST BE SELECTIVE!!

On the surface it is a lot of fun knowing that them guts can pack a punch, but what you have can be very addicting and there are people out there that cannot handle it! There are also people that are addicted to toxicity and are too eager to run all of the drama and bullshit they’re actively participating in back to you and it will cause you big problems. God forbid they become obsessed with you, it can get deadly. This can include people that you’ve dated, but the saving grace is those people always tell on themselves.

This includes you finding yourself drained of your vitality, mental health, and from personal experience people will stalk you. that is why cleansing yourself after every encounter, and time off for selfcare is a priority!

There have been far too many healers across every aspect that have died from sickness and suicide because they had not cleared themselves of the energy of the people that came to them, and sexual energy is a completely different level.

Mind you, YOU HAVE YOUR OWN SHIT TO DEAL WITH, and you’re taking on someone else’s.

No Sir/Ma’am, when they cum and go, you clear yourself immediately, take a spiritual bath, ground down in nature, meditate, or call on another healer that can remove the energy from you (non-sexually). IF it gets too extreme, it’s time for some banishing, cord cutting and release! your life is precious, much more than a quick bust.

Okay, this post was really long winded but i had to get this out for anyone that may resonate with this. I will most likely not post this long again, but i want to thank you for sticking with me, and i sincerely hope this is of some help.

For any additional questions, feel free to type a comment below, and remember your energy is precious.

Prioritize yourself.

blessings,

Hush